
Thinking positively is not something that is reserved for a few disconnected dreamers. With a little bit of conscious effort anyone can become an optimist. While the load of life can sometimes bear down upon us, it is important to keep your head up and look for a silver lining in any situation.
Some people will say that being eternally optimistic is naive and unrealistic; that there will be times when there will be something that you just cannot do. I cannot disagree any more with this statement. If you examine the type of people that are negative and reject the notion of positive thinking, you will find people that have not accomplished anything in their lives.
Nothing great was ever accomplished with a negative mindset. When the USA set out on the daunting task of landing a man on the moon, it was the persistance and positive thinking that enabled us to actually do it. If nobody thought it was possible, then it would not have happened. It is the dreamers, the optimists, and the revolutionaries that dare to see a world full of opportunity rather than a world of closed doors that become successful both in business and in life.
That’s not to say that there will not be challenges along the way. Believe me, there definitely will. That is where your passion for your work will become essential. If you love what you are doing, then taking on challenges head on will be fun for you and you will be much more likely to succeed.
So how do we maintain a positive mindset in a world full of negativity?
First of all, I would not watch the news or read most newspaper articles. Negativity sells in the media. When our country was doing well prior to this recession you did not hear about how many jobs were being created, yet now that times are rough we see the amount of job cuts on a daily basis. The news could be highlighting businesses that are actually doing quite well in the recession, but they don’t because negativity sells. If you avoid paying attention to the media, your brain will be able to avoid a lot of the doom and gloom that is in the atmosphere right now.
Second, I would make an effort to read either a self help book or a book about a dreamer who succeeded greatly. My aim of providing you with profiles of young entrepreneurs is to give you more confidence in yourself when you see that someone similar to you was able to accomplish great things and you can too! Reading these types of books and my blog will refresh your memory of this fact.
Third, surround yourself with positive people that will encourage you rather than bring you down. I used to have friends who were unmotivated and lacked an optimistic viewpoint. They often feared trying new things because they would always come up with excuses for why they could not do them. Having friends like this is probably one of the best ways to stifle your own success. Instead, by surrounding yourself with highly motivated friends that believe that they can accomplish anything, you will also be able to better maintain these traits yourself. Their success and hard work will also work as a motivator for you. If your friends are doing big things, then you will be pressured to also do big things.
Finally, make a conscious effort to reject negative thoughts that may enter your brain. If you find that a pessimistic thought is creeping into your mind, immediately switch what you are thinking about to something that would be considered positive. It doesn’t even matter what you think about as long as it is optimistic and blocks those toxic negative thoughts. This will get easier to do the more successes that you have as you become more confident in your abilities. If you are talking to people that bring up a topic with a negative tone, try to change the topic immediately. My parents can be somewhat pessimistic sometimes so I often have to change the subject with them. I cannot let the negative vibes seep into my brain and let even an ounce of doubt enter it. Negative feelings begin to snowball once they start and this impact is devastating on your ability to achieve your goals. Squash these bad feeling right away.
We are all truly blessed to live in the United States. This is one of the few countries in the world where we can all accomplish anything if we put our minds to it. This may be a cliche statement, but it is definitely true. We have so much opportunity, we just have to reach out and grab it. Opportunity should not be confused with easy success for it is not that, but we do live in a country where the sky is in fact the limit for those who want to work for it. I know you all do want to work for it, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this right now. Dare to be great and keep the inspiration alive. I promise to do whatever I can to help you do this.
Here is to your success.
-Keith